Today's Clothes

Have you attempted to go clothes shopping with a teenager or a “tweenager” (those between the age 10 and 13)? It can be frustrating, especially when you look at the fashions today.

Though more modest than the previous generation, today’s youth still struggle with fashion decisions that are honorable to God. Clothing choices usually go hand-in-hand with a young person’s pursuit of identity formation.

I suggest finding an opportunity to talk with your teenager or tweenager about clothing choices sometime and somewhere else other than actually shopping for clothes. One way to engage them is to do a good family Bible study together on the issue.

Read 1 Peter 3:3-4 and 1 Corinthians 10:31. Peter tells us that we should not be concerned about the outward beauty, instead, with the beauty that comes from within.” Corinthians encourages us to do everything for the glory of God.

Read these verses aloud with your family, then throw out the following discussion questions: What types of clothes promote an unhealthy view of sexuality? Explain.

What is modesty? Is modesty important? Why or why not?

Are there times when an item of clothing can be appropriate while at other times it’s inappropriate? Explain. How can you tell the difference?

What statements are young people making with the clothes they wear today?

What do those styles say about the people who wear them?

What do your clothes say about you? Is that the statement you want to make? Why or why not?